Good morning, beautiful people! š¤©
It took me years to learn this:
- Whenever Iām thinking positively and looking for good things ā> good things usually appear.
- But when Iām in a negative mood and my mind is on bad things ā> bad things usually appear.
We get what we search for! Something to think about today⦠What is your general mindset and what are you focusing on?
Change your outlook = change your day. šŖ
OK, now onto the money stuff! ššš
TO DO
Join (or start!) a Money Meet-Up š¤

We had about ~30 people cycle through our HTM meet-up in ATL a couple weeks ago. A fun time was had by all!
Going to networking events can be awkward and nerve-wracking. But, they are almost always worth it! You meet someone cool, learn something new, or walk away with an opportunity you didnāt have before.
This week: Is there a local meet-up group in your area that is money/investing/travel related? Or can you pioneer an event in your town (weāll even help you get the word out ā just send us your location & date/time)
The more we all talk about money, the wealthier we all grow, together!
***BTW, weāll see you at the next How To Money listener hang in New Orleans next month- Thursday October 19th, 7:30pm atĀ Courtyard Brewery. Put it on your calendar! š»š***
SAVING
Shopping for āLoss Leadersā š§
Did you know that Costco loses ~$40 million each year selling their rotisserie chickens!? They sell chickens for less than what it costs to make. WHY!?
Well, this is whatās known as a āLoss Leaderā marketing strategyā¦
Costco has worked out that if they sell chickens at a loss (and strategically place them waaaaay at the back of their warehouses) it will attract more customers inside who are likely to purchase many other profitable products during the same shopping trip.
Costco hotdogs are the same. They lose money selling their $1.50 combo, but the food court overall is a HUGE profit center because of the other food items they sell.

Almost all big box stores and grocery chains use the loss leader strategy. Here are a few tips for spotting loss leaders in the wild:
- Weekly ads and manager specials: Most loss leaders are advertised with big flashy signs in your face (they canāt attract people if nobody knows about them)! For example, meat specials on the front page of weekly ads are usually sold at a loss to attract shoppers.
- Store brand eggs & milk: Target, Walmart, and ALDI usually sell household staples as cheaply as possible to attract folks to do ALL their grocery shopping there.
- Subs at Publix: Offering cheap deli sandwiches or lunch is a tactic used by many grocery stores. It brings people into stores and causes them to extend their stay.
- Gas stations out front: Costco, Samās Club, BJās, etc. Any grocery chain that offers cheap gas usually isnāt making a profit on the gas they sell – they are trying to get more people into their parking lots, and then into the physical store.
- Beer/wine specials: 24 x Coronas for $19.99 is a great deal! But youāll notice itās strategically placed next to expensive limes, chips, and dip. Loss leader items are usually tied to high-margin counterparts!
- Seasonal deals: Retailers might use a single item offered at a huge discount, but mark up all the surrounding seasonal items. Eg: cheap turkeys at Thanksgiving, but expensive everything else. Trader Joeās sells seasonal flowers at or below cost price to bring people in for Mother’s Day, Valentineās Day, etc.
- Game consoles: Consumers pay a discounted upfront price for the game box hardware, but then pay outrageously marked-up prices for software games and subscriptions for many years to come.
- Credit card points! Welcome bonuses, cash back, and points are all loss leaders. Credit card companies happily lose money to gain new customers, knowing most will end up paying them interest + fees.
OK, you get the point. Marketing tricks are everywhere. So how can we as consumers not fall into these traps!? Here are a few thoughts to make the most of loss leaders:
- 1) Buy only if you need it. Just because the store is losing money, it doesnāt mean youāre saving money. Bargains are only worth it if you are going to get those particular items anyway.
- 2) Buy in bulk! If thereās a loss leader that you can freeze (like ground beef, chicken breast, sliced hams, etc) then load up! Pre-buying at the moment will help you save money in the future.
- 3) Visit different stores. Weāre not saying you should drive across town to save 30 cents on a particular item. But usually splitting your grocery run across 2-3 stores will be best. Get to know which stores near you have regular loss leaders and shop for those.
- 4) Watch out for ulterior motives. Shopping with a written list prevents you from straying off and buying things you donāt really need. If you donāt meal plan ahead of time, the grocery store will end up doing it for you (at a significant cost to your budget).
Related stuff:
š» HTM Blog:Ā 10 Ways to Slash Your Grocery Bill
šĀ Mindful Spending:Ā Tips to be a more mindful shopper!
šĀ Whitepaper:Ā Razors & Blades MythsĀ (A super nerdy study examining loss leader methods and examples if youāre into marketing research)
TOGETHER WITH DAFFY**
A Better System for Giving š

Daffy has a simple mission: To help people be more generous, more often.
They created a platform & app that helps regular folks like you and me manage giving to the charities we care about more efficiently. (Both Joel and Matt have set up donor-advised funds with Daffy ā and Joel wrote aĀ review about it here!)
Daffy is the lowest-cost DAF provider around. Whether youāre giving away $200 or $2 million, they make it possible to give and grow your donations via a simple mobile app.
Donor-advised funds are awesome because theyāre:
- Convenient š²: All giving records & donation receipts are organized in a single place.
- Tax efficient š°: With a DAF like Daffy, you can grow your donations tax-free, and also donate assets like appreciated stock, index funds, and crypto to avoid capital gains.
- On auto-pilot! š : Daffy manages automatic contributions so that we hit our annual goal for giving.
If you want to give more regularly (even tiny amounts), or grow an investment account for charitable causes,Ā check out Daffy.Ā Theyāll even throw in a $25 bonus to get you startedĀ š.
GOALS
Are You On Track? š
Weāre entering the last 3 months of the year ā Christmas is in ~90 days!!!
And if youāre a big-time procrastinator (šāāļø) you might be falling behind on some of this yearās financial goals.
At the beginning of 2023, we asked folks what they were hoping to achieve this year. Here were the most common responses⦠ššš

What were your financial goals for 2023? How are you progressing?
- RE: maxing out retirement accounts⦠Remember it can take 2-3 paycheck cycles to change your 401k/403b deductions. If you are trying to stuff more money into your workplace plans, give yourself enough time to make those changes!
Sinking funds & holiday spending:Ā If youāre caught off guard every year by holiday spending, start saving NOW to get ahead and build aĀ sinking fund.
Saving for kids/house/big ticket items:Ā Make sure all your cash is beingĀ stored in a HYSA! Rates are awesome right now so make sure your cash pile is compounding as much as possible.
FSA money: Most FSA funds donāt automatically roll over to next year ā they need to be spent! Be sure to make the most use of your funds before anything expires.
- If youāre behind on goals: Thatās totally OK! Itās never too late to course correct and re-set your focus. Donāt fall into the trap of āthe year is nearly over so why even tryā.
- If you’ve already crushed your 2023 goals:Ā 14 Common Annual Financial Goals
- Congrats! Now start working on next yearās goals š¤£
More Resources:
ā Ā EOY Checklist:Ā 14 Common Annual Financial Goals
ICYMI
Happenings around the web…
Cell CalculatorĀ š²
WalletHub has a simpleĀ wireless carrier comparison toolĀ that helps you decide between 2 carriers offering different upfront and monthly fees. Over a 2-year period, it might surprise you that carriers offering a āfreeā iPhone 15 actually work out to be more expensive because of their locked-in plan costs.
Home BuyersĀ š”
Apparently, theĀ best time to buy a homeĀ is next week between October 1-7! Well, thatās according to the number crunchers at Realtor.com. Just a reminder for all you house hunters⦠the real best time to buy a home *for you* is actuallyĀ when you are readyĀ (your personal timeline, savings, finances, family situation).
WFHĀ šØāš»
TheĀ typical remote workerĀ saves up to 80 minutes per day by not going into the office… But ironically, many folks spend that spare time working more!
Money Talk š§
Big cheers to Skyler Fleming for hosting us on the Money Talk podcast last week! We chatted about a huge range of topics ā marriage, retirement, hobbies, debt, saving strategiesā¦Ā Give it a listen!
Timing GameĀ š
Can you beat the stock market?Ā ThisĀ stock market timing gameĀ simulates the market’s ups and downs using historical data. All you do is click the āBUYā or āSELLā buttons and itāll compare your trading performance vs. the S&P 500 index.Ā (hint: the less you trade, the better you will do ā beating the market is extremely hard, both in the game AND in real lifeĀ š)Ā
FRIENDS OF HTM
Sarah Wilson aka Budget Girl āļø

Sarah lives in a small Texas town, works a 9-5 job, and has a happy and humble lifestyle… About 10 years ago, she began publishing her personal budget online, and since then has encouraged millions of people to live a frugal, fun, and financially fearless life.
Budget Girl is aĀ websiteĀ andĀ YouTube channelĀ showcasing a plethora of budgeting methods, DIY tips, investing pointers, and general advice to live a full life! Check out her stuff, youāll like it!
We also interviewed Sarah onĀ episode 565Ā if you missed it… Great convo about building wealth on a tiny income.
Thatās it for now… Wishing you a great week ahead and remember to think and be POSITIVE!! š»
Best friends out š»



